Where Be All Da Sistahs At?



I grabbed this from some random forum linking to one of our posts.

So where should we place the blame?

1. Better overall financial position of a lot of brothas?
2. OR, are the sistahs doing something wrong?

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If I wasn't already involved, i'd flip the script and date only black women. They be doing it for me, with the ass like POW. BTW, Tiger woods isn't black.

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006 @ 2:09pm
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Neither is wayne brady

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006 @ 2:12pm
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IS that Taye Diggs in the lower right corner? WOW that woman is manly and ooooo-gly!

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006 @ 2:13pm
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I thought Wayne Brady's wife was Asian...

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006 @ 2:29pm
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Tiger woods is part black, that makes him black in the good ol' US of A. And most black guys don't set out to date white women. In most parts of this country white females are told by their fathers that they will kill them if the ever brought home a n----. So only in instances where white females are not brought up with such racist attitudes will they openly date a black man. Or if they are a a professional athlete, which somehow magically changes Dad's good ol boy attitudes.

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006 @ 2:34pm
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or if they want to piss off their parents the will date only black guys

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006 @ 2:44pm
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A lot of black ladies in my brooklyn neighborhood are married to white guys.
Also there are loads of black hollywood guys married to black wives for years.
So marry date whoever. As long it is not my man!

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006 @ 2:46pm
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I think the key would be if these guys could find a colored broad that had an ass less than a yardstick wide.

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006 @ 2:50pm
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Yes, one is asian. White women are, in general, prettier than the rest. It's that simple. The only non-white women celebrated as being beautiful have very white looks, that is to say, classic beauty.

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006 @ 2:52pm
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it's about cock. jesus. -d

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006 @ 3:13pm
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It may not be what the black women aren't doing for their bros.........

How bout the cracker dudes ain't getting BUSY like the BROTHERS. Seems like these white chicks might be getting their worlds rocked.

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006 @ 3:44pm
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jesus christ, it's SIX couples. Maybe they're in love? hmmm.....

don't get me wrong, i love the sisters. but there are plenty of white men w/black women, so isn't this a double standard?

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006 @ 4:09pm
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"White women are, in general, prettier than the rest."

wtf are you talking about?

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006 @ 4:36pm
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white woman are not prettier then the rest.
what fucking planet are you living in.
I've seen some ugly white chicks.

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006 @ 5:01pm
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The answer my friends is that these men are famous and loaded...they could have any woman they wanted. These bitches are all gold diggers!

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006 @ 5:38pm
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Pardon me...exept Heidi of course...I think she really does love him which is good for the both of them I guess.

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006 @ 5:39pm
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its all love baby! damn, if i got rich i would have a white man for every day of the week. sistahs unite!

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006 @ 6:03pm
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GOD.... Who GIVES a SHIT!!

IF they Wanna date white women... let them fucking date whoever they want..

Why should this even be an issue? Get a Life people...

it's sooo yesterday

I'll do anybody.. black, white, asian, latino..green , purple.. what the heck.. even polka dotted...Who cares...

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006 @ 6:36pm
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uncircumcised?

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006 @ 6:44pm
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go nadieh !!!! :)

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006 @ 6:55pm
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There are alot of unattractive white women, of course. The statement "in general..." automatically admits this. The most beautiful women in the world, however, are white. Pop culture still defines beauty by classic white european features. This is why women of other races are considered beautiful when they look less "ethnic" and more "white" than the rest of their immediate counterparts. I don't make the rules (and yes, like it or not, this is a predominant rule). I just happen to agree with them.

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006 @ 8:27pm
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I think Mr. Burnfish's comment that "in most parts of this country white females are told by their fathers that they will kill them if the ever brought home a n--" is flat-out wrong. I have been married to a black woman (which is probably a little bit different) for nearly fifteen years and have been amazed at how few problems we've encountered. I've found that people are pretty open and accepting.

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006 @ 10:40pm
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Tiger Woods IS BLACK. Didnt ya'll See The 2004 Race Draft? He was drafted 1st by teh black people.

and if i could quote it direct from "Resevior Dogs", i would, but it was a pretty good dialogue from Chirs Penn's (RIP) "Nice Guy Eddie" about how black women "dont take no shit"

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006 @ 11:29pm
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Black dudes at clubs are the funniest... once they see a white chick it's like animals on meat...haha White chicks who go to black clubs are looking for one thing. Sex only lasts for so long...and bros treat theri chicks like shit for the most part...so, lesson here, treat white girls like shit and they will fuck you. 2 each their own, i guess. i'll keep treating my ladies with respect, b/c i was raised right, not in some crack house. if you're a white chick who dates black dudes for that 1 reason, u deserve to get your ass beat and treated like crap by brothas (it's funny 2 watch actually). you reap what u sew, biatches... If the girl was raised right, she wouldn't put up with those jackasses. Can anyone say trailer trash?

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006 @ 11:56pm
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I like in spring break city (just figure it out), so i can comment on this issue with some evidence. Not all white chicks like black dudes. Thats definite fact. I hate to bring classes, but most of my lady friends would never date a black man, b/c they treat women like crap for the most part. you brothas can have those trailer girls, we put them on waivers and cut them from the race...lol Sex def only lasts for so long until you have 2 have a conversation eventually. "Yo nigga" "yo bitch" "yeeeah nigga" "suck my dick bitch" only works for certain classes of white girls(do I really need to say?)

One thing is certain, guys... if you have money, girls will put upwith your crap 2 get at that cash. If i didn't drive a BMW, I would n't have as many beautiful girls with me... Tis life muthafuckas, it def aint fair. I hate it too, but it's the world we live in...

Thursday, March 30th, 2006 @ 12:11am
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I agree with Rage Against The Machine in the sense that as a white female living in a suburban area with a somewhat mixed but predominantly white population, I would not date a black man. Unless they are the type that are "white washed" and treat girls with respect then ya, you know theyre getting the white trash whores.

The ones that carry multiple diseases in their pants, lost their virginity by 14, blame their alcoholic parents for their problems, will have their first pregnancy by 15. Oh and they generally dye their hair piss blonde and let the roots grow out just enough to complete their look, along with the "I just had sex with my boyfriend look," the one where they either wear sweats with a fancy top or jeans with their boyfriends giant jersey overtop.

But getting back to the topic...I went to a mainly black club once, and wow let me tell you never again. It was aggressive, but thank god it was so bad most of those pigs were going after the fat 300 pound white girls. (yes it was a bad club) And oh yes, my dad did warn me to never bring home a black man too.

Thursday, March 30th, 2006 @ 12:30am
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Man this is some funny shit. I'll tell you what the answer is. White women, and yes even the one's whose fathers warned them, Give it up EASY. They don't ask questions they know what their job in a relationship is. A sista would at least want you to talk to her in between sex.....

The answer is .. IT is just Easier

Thursday, March 30th, 2006 @ 1:08am
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hehe, they think they hit the big time...THE FABLED WHITE WOMAN (the most brown bagged in history)...maybe those rich blacks like those ugly white women. is it that hard to believe?

if a native american had a japanese girlfriend would we worry?...i hope not.

in africa, blacks are marrying blacks by the millions (and vice versa for the redneck crackers). anyway these fucks are fake. the blacker/cracker the berry the sweeter the juice.

Thursday, March 30th, 2006 @ 1:42am
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wow,you americans are SO race concious

Thursday, March 30th, 2006 @ 2:57am
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This has nothing to do with stereotypes. I have witnessed it 1st hand all the time! It is kinda weird how black men who cannot dress properly (which is 80% of them) aggresively go after white women at clubs. They treat them like shit, and some of these lower class women like it for some reason. I dont think that if a black dude acts right its white washed (there are many white trash guys, believe me) It is just educated people. This whole thing about all black guy trying to be "thugs" is so juvenile. get a fucking life. Like Chris Rock said, "There are Niggas, and there are black folk" unfortunately, there are many "niggas" around just trying 2 take advantage of anyone. yes, i went to private school, and am happy for it, that I never witnessed 2 many of these "thugs" trying to spit game. Nigger please.

Thursday, March 30th, 2006 @ 3:39am
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nterracial Marriages

1. In 1960 there were about 150,000 interracial married couples(1) in the United States. This number grew rapidly to more than 1.0 million in 1998. In 2000, they numbered 1.46 million.

2. Black/white interracial married couples have increased seven-fold since 1960, from 51,000 to 363,000 in 2000. As a percentage of all married couples, this type more than tripled during the period. However, black/white marriages, which represented 34% of all interracial marriages (40,491) in 1960, fell to 24.7% of all interracial marriages (1,464,000) in 2000. About 70% of Hispanics also marry outside their group.

3. Non-Hispanic blacks and non-Hispanic whites are proportionately least likely to marry outside their groups, and whites who do so are almost three times more likely to marry Asians and American Indians than to marry blacks. Over 93% of whites and blacks marry within their racial groups, in contrast to about 70% of Asians, and less than one-third of American Indians. When minorities marry outside their group, their spouses are usually white.

Source: http://www.jointcenter.org/DB/factsheet/marital.htm

Thursday, March 30th, 2006 @ 5:08am
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"no, there are good black women just as there are good black men,and you saying there are none is almost blasphemous to the rest of your comment. you said that not all black men are stupid thugged out idiots, that they’re ARE good black men, but you couldn’t say the same for black women?maybe you ARE white washed…"

C'mon you know that is not what I meant! The reason why I speak only about black men is ..... uuuuhhhhhh because the topic of this post is BLACK MEN with white women? I feel exactly the same about the many successful black women who are isolated and feel the need to marry out of their own race, because all they meet is '2pac wannabe' fools. And the only reason it is a 'shame' is because a community is less enriched by the success of its good people. It is NEVER a shame for two people who really love each other to come together.

And whoever it was that said it, white women are not the standard for beauty everywhere. I personnally have a really strong preference for the beauty of black women (many of my friends feel the same) and the research shows that asian/white men feel the same about their own race. The only reason white women dominate the media is because white men dominate the world and their preferences are presented, but as the economical topology of the world changes, so will the standards of what is beautiful. Ultimately I would not let skin colour or country of origin stop me from being with a person who I find beautiful as a person. To not marry because of colour is just as bad as marrying because of colour.

Thursday, March 30th, 2006 @ 8:11am
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people's choices are their own, right?

I am glad to see races mixing more and more because, eventually, there will be only one race....which could only be a good thing.

Thursday, March 30th, 2006 @ 10:14am
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In reality there is only one race, the human race. The division of people by colour is trivial at best. I heard a geneticist say that the colour of someones skin is determined by a few genes and it is possible for two people of differing colours to be genetically more similar then a pair of the same colour. It is actually quite profound when you think about it in relation to how you chose partners and friends.

If we did all merge into one colour of people, people would find some other triviality to divide and fight over. As well as having inter-race hatred, you have intra-race discrimination ie: upper-class vs lower-class, light-skinned versus dark-skinned, catholic vs protestant, sunny vs shiar the list goes on.... The need to separate and distinguish ones self by categorisation seems to be part of human nature unfortunately.
:(

Thursday, March 30th, 2006 @ 10:30am
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the worst part about racial stereotypes is that they are, for the most part, true.
not in every case clearly, but they do come from somewhere. AND YOU KNOW WHAT I CANT FUCKING STAND? THE FACT that its acceptable to be racist towards white people while everyone else is tiptoed around. im not saying hey lets all be racist i just think its wrong. even though white people did subject many to racisism. but the thing is, all the people that did slavery and shit are now dead and so are their situations with them. i HATE being blamed for slavery CANT YOU SEE WE'RE NOT THE ONES WHO FUCKING DID IT?

Thursday, March 30th, 2006 @ 10:35am
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b/c there cocks are bigger

Thursday, March 30th, 2006 @ 3:00pm
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Nobody blames you for anything sweetie.. Well At least im not.. That would be the same as blaming the Germans today for killing jews in the 2nd world war.. That's stupid

I Agree with Kzo and Butterfly

Thursday, March 30th, 2006 @ 5:12pm
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LOL
It cracks me up when people say Wayne Brady or Tiger Woods isn't black because they don't act like Snoop Dog or Dennis Rodman. Ah you gotta love stereotypes. I loved the skit on Chapelle when Wayne Brady was all big pimpin, friggin hilarious.

Thursday, March 30th, 2006 @ 5:22pm
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" Where Be All Da Sistahs At? "

ROFL. Good One.

Thursday, March 30th, 2006 @ 7:02pm
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" b/c there cocks are bigger "

That is an old stereotype, a freakin lie, because they hang longer when limp. Period. Look it up! For the most part blacks dicks are fucking skinny. White men will always out girth a black. But when they are limp the blacks stay at about 4 inch(talking about an average size 6-7 incher hard on penis here), white dudes might go down to 2.5.. the whites just grow more when hard. I've seen black guys with tiny dicks, with long pencil dicks, either way.. never thick. It is a myth. And I'm glad I know better. White men have by far waaay better penises.

Thursday, March 30th, 2006 @ 7:25pm
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"Tiger woods is part black, that makes him black in the good ol’ US of A"

That's so not true. Maybe 100 years ago, but not today.
You want to be brutaly honest , now a days it comes down to how you act, dress, carry yourself etc....
Trust me, most people consider Tiger part of the white club. Just like Keanu Reeves and The Rock.

Saturday, April 1st, 2006 @ 2:46am
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Why would Keanu not be considered a white guy anyway? I understand where you are coming from with Rock, but Keanu?

Saturday, April 1st, 2006 @ 11:35pm
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Racism is a part of life and sadly it always will be. I just can't see anything in the foreseeable future changing that. I hope I'm wrong...but I never am so it's doubtful. I'm a white male and personally, I love all the ladies!

Red, I certainly hope you are female because you seem to have a great knowledge of cock.

Sunday, April 2nd, 2006 @ 1:07am
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"I’ve seen black guys with tiny dicks, with long pencil dicks, either way.. never thick. It is a myth. And I’m glad I know better. White men have by far waaay better penises."

That's one of the most ridiculous statements I have ever seen...it's bad enough people on here are stereotyping race, but to stereotype a penis??? LMFAO That's hilarious! As a white woman who has dated BOTH black men and white men I will say this: your statement has NO MERIT! White or black, men have different sized penises. As for "girth" my current boyfriend is BLACK and he is far from having a SKINNY penis!!! Fuck he is so "WIDE" and thick I can hardly take it ;) And I won't even go there about the length bcz I have a feeling "Red" is a redneck biggot and is extremely jealous and threatened by black men. You are probably one of those people who stare at me and my boyfriend whenever we are out together with that look of disgust in your eyes. Get a life

Sunday, April 2nd, 2006 @ 6:58pm
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Not every black dude is the same, just like not every white chick is the same. There are good ones and bad ones. Most of the ones you see at clubs have the "gangster" starter kit on and are ridiculous people. Most white trash girls will dig the disrespect and all the non-sense. I thankfully have been raised right and have decent friends who can see through all the crap. Like I said before, Chris Rock said, "There are Niggas, and there are regular black people..." Unfortunately there are a whole lotta of niggas around lately (white and black). I think of these niggas as so over the top ridiculous (hair, cars, language) that if the white trash girl likes them, they deserve what they get (beatings, berating, porn, etc.) That's just life. I am asian and have a beautiful white girlfriend, and i really dont see her as "white". I have had gf's of many races, italian, japanese, german. Life is beautiful, don't waste time hating all the time.

Sunday, April 2nd, 2006 @ 8:33pm
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Rage Against The Machine you are not only racist you are sexists (condoning violence against women). “my lady friends would never date a black man, b/c they treat women like crap for the most part. Yeah Rage those Black men you see as thugs too bad they all can’t be as respectful as you. BTW Japanese, German, Italian are not races they are NATIONALITIES.

Shame on you and the rest of the racists on this board. You all have a serious disease it’s called racism/ignorance.

Ala, ken, Pearl Jam, I can’t take this, Rage Against The Machine, red, girllyzilla RACISTS

girllyzilla (being Black/White/Asian is skin color not class or how you act)

I can’t take this- Stereotypes come from ignorance, hatred and generalizations. There is a stereotype that all white men are racists/oppressors and yet you claim to know it’s not true and are angry about it. However by your own logic people assuming you are racist would have to be right “cause stereotypes come from somewhere.� BTW nobody is blaming you, and some segregationists are still alive the 1960’s were not that long ago (read a history book).

Ignorant people need to stop quoting Chris Rock because you completely missed his point.

Monday, April 3rd, 2006 @ 11:04am
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who cares?

Monday, April 3rd, 2006 @ 11:54am
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When i was talking about racial stereotypes I was talking about appearances and then i got off topic. I should have made that more clear, i realize now i never said whos post I was refering to. CLEARLY not every person of every race lives up to stereotypes.
If you get this worked up about it why don't you go out in the world and try and make a difference. Can't you see we're just random ass people venting on a stupid ass website? We dont have to make perfect sense to you, we don't even know you. we're just writing little tibits of shit that are on our mind and that dont necessarily reflect our entire view on the subject.
so fuck off

Tuesday, April 11th, 2006 @ 8:33pm
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I'm a black woman and I'll date anybody of any color, race, or nationality that I please. I thank God that He has blessed me enough so that I am not painfully ignorant and that because of that I don't miss out on knowing and loving beautiful people of all different origins. I pray for the day like Dr. martin Luther King said, that I will be judged by my own personal character and not by my skin color, (and certainly not by the actions of other people within my own race).

Tuesday, April 11th, 2006 @ 10:13pm
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well i would like to know why blacks should feel ashamed of wanting to critise our own,i lived in europe for 10 years and racism is alive and kicking big time in england the jamacian blacks and the african colonies date interracially big time, i have no problem with that, but as a pyschologist who is an american but studied in england for four years, and being stopped by the police in england, and harassed in france,and the blacks that mix race in germany suffer the same as all parts of europe so racism is not even close to being done away with,the resources from africa is managed by only european companies,here is something you can do pick and african country and where they are starving go to the internet and type up there resources and it will be american whites and white european countries that own all there wealth but they are starving , that power will never be let go by whites they have the world resources covered and the only thing blacks do is biker about a few men marrying whites but our fault lay in proving that we can date and have sex with ever nation other then treat our own with respect, ligkt skin long, hair,i see so many mixed race children having problems with there idenity and inspite of what there parents say most have problems regardless what a few may say that slipped through without problems but i bet it was said behind there backs,

Saturday, April 15th, 2006 @ 6:28pm
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If a few blackwomen want to go be with whitemen fine same for blackmen and whitewomen,
and when shit hits the fan as it always does let them stand there with there partners and see what happens when they are hidding from racial agression behind there closed doors and need help because when whites become violent the white partner has more chances of surviving then the black partners will, because they will be on there turff and dancing to there tune, so stand fast and do not think that you blackwomen are losing anything I have visited the hate site aganist blacks and have witness racism in many countries,standfast do not listen to the voice that says i can date who i want, when shit hits the fan we bond together and those that where not for us can fine there own protection in the white community but they wont last, in my view we need our black women to stand by us and since most of us blackmen check our moral compass by our women we need you now more the ever we need to develope a new way of speaking so we can weed out people who do not get it and know who we are safe around who we can speak our buisness with and which blacks are our people, if it were not for those like me getting the shit kicked out of me fighting for respect for my future and my peoples future those who did nothing would not be reaping the fruits of today. in my veiw and since i see whats happening overseas, i will die for my own in a heart beat and fear not we are organised the baton has been pass on from on generation to the next and we are watching and our kunfu is strong.

Saturday, April 15th, 2006 @ 7:18pm
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We are a peaceful people but some of us are wating and watching we have technology you wont believe,those days of unorganisation are gone we number 4,000,000,000 are gone and growing we speak in channels no one knows you will be safe.

Saturday, April 15th, 2006 @ 7:25pm
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" Red, I certainly hope you are female because you seem to have a great knowledge of cock. "

yes indeed, I am. And I was speaking from experience, sadly.

Monday, April 17th, 2006 @ 10:16pm
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RED-
Keanu is half white. His father was Chinese and Hawaiian, but took off and left I think before Keanu was even born. He said he didn't get any heritage from his real father who didn't care to stick around so he identifies himself just as a "white boy".

Tuesday, April 18th, 2006 @ 6:30pm
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I love me some black poon tang and I am a whitey. "the blacker the berry..."

Tuesday, April 18th, 2006 @ 6:42pm
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i'm a brotha and date white girls only, because sistas aint fine enough, and they dont give it up, and they dont give head. When they finally do give you some, it aint all that.

Tuesday, April 18th, 2006 @ 7:34pm
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I like a little thickness in da trunk and white girls just ain't up to par. I also like my women healthy like most of tha sistah's and tha white girls these days are mad crazy sickly lookin.

Tuesday, April 18th, 2006 @ 7:36pm
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sistas make u wait for some, and when they finally do give u some, it aint all that. And they wont give u no head. and they dont get kinky, like i like it.

Tuesday, April 18th, 2006 @ 7:56pm
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Hells no, the sistahs get all crazy 'jungle fever' an shit. You get em in the sack they start going wild, screamin "fried chicken eatin muthafucka" an shit. Listen to biggie's ready to die disc for an example. Most whitey's just lie there in missionary and make you do all the work and are not down wit gettin all freaky. I like's me multiple positions, usually ending with the doggie stylee on that phat, healthy ass trunk.

Tuesday, April 18th, 2006 @ 8:21pm
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u got to be a thug for a sista to give u some play. plus sistas want to know what u do on the first date: if u aint got no money, they dont want yo ass.

Sunday, April 23rd, 2006 @ 5:47pm
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Well, yall here’s an e-mail I received from my cousin in California discussing this exact matter.
By the way, that person that made the comment about general
America’s idea of beauty being the white girl I have one question to ask you. Is it still 36-24-36? Because if it is, I have to quote my homy Sir Mix-A-Lot::”36-24-36... Only if she’s 5-3.” Ha Ha

FW: White Women's Opinion Of Black Women WOW !!

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This my Sistas is a MUST READ!!! - T.
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READ!!!!

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White women's opinion of black women & a brother's response
Please take a moment and read this. Pretty Deep! Thumbs up to this black man
Enjoy.
It seems that an article was written to Sister 2 Sister magazine by a Caucasian woman who requested a response from black men. I'm so glad she got what
she asked for (and more) !!!
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Dear Jamie:
I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Black male readers.
I am a White female who is engaged to a Black male-good-looking, educated and loving. I just don't understand a lot of Black female's attitudes about our
relationship.
My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Black women were slim to none. As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative,
too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much excess baggage.
Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by Black men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world. If Black women
are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don't they look at themselves and make some changes.
I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we're out in public. I would like to hear from some Black men about why we are so appealing and
coveted by them.
Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James
Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley Snipes...
I could go on and on. But, right now, I'm a little angry and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad with us White women because so many of
your men want us. Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better. If I'm wrong, Black men, let me know.
Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA
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Dear Jamie:
I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl.
Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old black man. I graduated from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta, Georgia with a Bachelor
of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at a major corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I consider myself to be among
the ranks of successful black men.
I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to set the record straight of why black men date white women. Back in the day, one
of the biggest reasons why black men dated white women was because they were considered easy.
The black girls in my neighborhood were raised in the church. They were very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to. Because
of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls.
Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because they are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men, because of insecurities, fears,
and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our black women. We are afraid that our woman will be more successful than us, make
more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many black men look for a more docile woman. Someone we can control.
I have talked to numerous black men and they continuously comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their white women. I just want to set the record
straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not all successful black men date white women.
Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth "Babyface" Edmonds, Samuel L. Jackson,
and Chris Rock all married strong black women And, to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot light, who openly or secretly
desire black women over white women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few.
I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed Stop thinking that because you are white that you are some type of goddess. Remember, when black
Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you were over in the caves of Europe eating raw meat and
beating each other over the head with clubs. Read your history!
It was the black woman that taught you how to cook and season your food. It was the black woman that taught you how to raise your children. It was black
women who were breast feeding and raising your babies during slavery.
It is the black woman that had to endure watching their fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Black women were born with two
strikes against them: being black and being a woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise!
It is because of the black women's strength, elegance, power, love and beauty that I could> never> date anyone except my black Queen. It is not just the
outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and shades that I love them.
Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about black women. Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their ability to overcome
great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their highest potential while enduring
great pain and suffering is why I have fallen in love with black women.
I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy and envy more so than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do you continuously
go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so proud to be white, then why don't you just be happy with your pale skin? Why do you continue to
inject your lips, hips, and breasts with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more voluptuous?
I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting to have what the black woman has.
BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk over and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately, I am looking for a
Virtuous Woman. Someone that can be a good wife and mother to my children.
Someone who can be my best friend and understands my struggles. I am looking for a soul mate. I am looking for a sister and; unfortunately, you do not and
CANNOT fit the bill.
No offense taken, none given.
Signed, Black Royalty
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Sunday, June 4th, 2006 @ 4:14am
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okay for one, not all white women go to tanning salons and get plastic surgery
for two, this trend the white girl is talking about, though extremely badly worded, being the black women hating on the white women when they're with a black guy happens reaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaally often. no where in the letter did he explain why this happens, he only assumed she was jealous? of ...something? okay whatever. white women are great, (i dont care that he didnt say it IM fucking saying it) and so are black women. that was not the point of her email. now that i took six years to read it, id like my time back please. although his love for black women is cute and respectable, hating on white women and stereotyping them is fucking racist too so dont get all high and mighty
oh and by the way, white girls dont tan to look black, they tan to look tanned.
and the reason why black women "taught us all to cook" and shit is because we were once all black and in africa. yeah thats right, we all came from africa. "read your history", bud.

Tuesday, June 13th, 2006 @ 10:55pm
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i have had many white people say to me, you're a very pretty black girl. so i thought to myself, what are you trying to say? that black people are typically unattractive? i think that people do put too much emphasis on the european standard of beauty. personally, i think that black women are the most beautiful women on earth, hate it or love it. all that matters is YOUR personal preference. too many idiots let peolle shape their preception of what's beautiful and what's not. it won't matter 50 years from now anyway, when everyone is decomposing.

Thursday, June 15th, 2006 @ 10:12pm
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people*

Thursday, June 15th, 2006 @ 10:13pm
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Wow alot of your are insane lol. 1ST of all who care about TAye Diggs and Wayne Brady dating/marrying white women. The majority of black men (successful black men) have black wives (Shaq/Jordan/D wade/Will Smith/Sam Jackson/etc.) and It's not black women with Euro-trash feature that are "attractive" it's actually the reverse its's TANNED/BIG LIPPED/CURVY white wowan with ethnic features that are attractive. Sitting in the sun (potential death hazard) to look like me and my couterparts. Most blakc men who date white women are "throw-aways" below OUR standards...they need to get head from someone. WHy do u think they always say black woman have attitudes and one to be in control......... their weakness makes them stray..

Thursday, June 22nd, 2006 @ 3:55am
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People worry too much about who other people date, marry, etc. If you see a black male and white female walking by hand in hand, how does that affect your life? People react to that with very PC attitudes, like they're all offended. Is that couple paying your bills? Sending your children to school? Holding the roof over your family? NO! So don't worry about it. It is none of your damn business who somebody else wants to date, marry, or love. It is ridiculous how people are constantly observing, judging and questioning the motives of those in interracial relationships. I'm a white woman and I would never look down on my best friend of 16 years (a beautiful, kind, intelligent black woman) because she dates the men within my racial group. She loves black men and was married to a black man once but finds that most white men treat her more respectfully. That's all there is to it. That is the bottom line.

Worry about your own lives, responsibilities, and relationships. Don't assume that you know the reason a black man is with a white woman or otherwise. Don't assume he's with her b/c of all the stereotypical reasons you've heard or come to believe: all white women are sluts, we're loose, we love to do this and that sexually, we're down with anything freaky, and of course, the one about how we're submissive docile pushovers. I have had to school some black folks about these stereotypes before. I didn't look at my husband when we first met and say to myself: "Ooh, a black guy...like, wow! He's probably a real stud. These puny whiteboys can't satisfy me. I need some of that thug lovin'. Look at that sexy dark skin and those lips and those muscles...mmm-mmm-mmm! I wonder if it's true what they say. His penis is probably like, 12 inches"! People assume that this is how all white women react to black men and it's bullshit. That is an ignorant stereotype that started centuries ago when black people were enslaved. When I met my husband, I definitely noticed that he was goodlooking...but I was blown away more by his smile, his sarcastic sense of humor, his friendly personality, and intelligence when I started talking to him. My mind wasn't on the size of his dick or anything sexual. I was turned on by who he was as a PERSON. His ability to make me laugh, the fact that he has a good relationship with the females in his family and his son's mother (a black woman), his willingness to explore other cultures, all of those were qualities that attracted me to him.

Friday, June 23rd, 2006 @ 2:05pm
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Hey, there are some very ugly white women in the world, so don't go puttin sistas down.

Wednesday, March 29th, 2006 @ 2:54pm
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What happened to seals face?

Thursday, March 30th, 2006 @ 12:32am
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Shit. I hate the stero types of black men all being thugged out idiots. The idea that the only good black men are white washed is ridiculous, it is like saying that the only good qualities a black person can have are copied from another race. There are thugged out idiots in all races not just black men, and there are good men from all races too. The problem black men have is that the media only promotes one stereo type because that is what sells.

I am a young black man who does not subscribe to the bull that is on TV and the good qualities I have I learned from my parents who raised me well and too learned respect from their parents who grew up in Africa. Very little of the good things about me such as my respect for others, my love of education and other things, came from the society I grew up in, they came from the upbringing I had.

On the other hand there is the pressure to conform to the stereotypes that the media perpetuates, because unless you are all thugged out, many women just are not interested in you.

Yes it is sad that the good black men cannot find other good black women, but as long as they find someone who loves them for who they are, that is all that really matters. Race is not as important as some would like it to be.

Thursday, March 30th, 2006 @ 1:08am
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Yes it is sad that the good black men cannot find other good black women, but as long as they find someone who loves them for who they are, that is all that really matters. Race is not as important as some would like it to be.

no, there are good black women just as there are good black men,and you saying there are none is almost blasphemous to the rest of your comment. you said that not all black men are stupid thugged out idiots, that they're ARE good black men, but you couldn't say the same for black women?maybe you ARE white washed...and lolpop, yes ,in this day and time most of the standards of beauty are judged according to the look of the white man, but not because it is beautiful sweetie because it sure isn't beautiful to me and others who manage to escape your control,but because you all are just that damn manipulative in every shape and form.

Thursday, March 30th, 2006 @ 3:43am
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Oh Yeah and don't forget Mr. Bryant -I hate all white people- Gumble.
His wife is whitey mcwhite.

Saturday, April 1st, 2006 @ 2:47am
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no the blog is silly it was changed, we truly number 4000,000,000 and we are growing we are from every black nation in the world the net and quick flights have brought us together and we are waiting and watching to make sure it never happens again we are not anti white
just anti neo-nazi and far right so do not get the wrong idea. forgive my quick typing without checks i am off.

Saturday, April 15th, 2006 @ 7:31pm
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