what about it doesn't make sense?
you don't think someone trying to convince themselves and the world they weren't gay would try to find the most feminine woman possible.
your POV actually confirms this,
because people feel the way you do
people trying to stay in the closet would never be with someone that was masculine looking or acting
because as you have just done
they would be called out at gay
and according to your logic the best way to avoid being called gay would be to find the most womanly looking and acting woman you could get.