You should not be the least concerned with the fact that you are deciding what is right and wrong with Aubrey....and even passing sentence on her. Neither you nor anyone elsde can put her down unless she puts herself down first. Critisism and judgement is the devil's tools. He uses them to stop people from fulling thier destiny and to steal their liberty and creativity. Some people criticize whatever is different from their choices. It is interesting to note that MOST of the people are also VERY INSECURE!